First of all, let’s get one thing straight. Your Italy and our Italia are not the same thing. Italy is a soft drug peddled in predictable packages, such as hills in the sunset, olive groves, lemon trees, white wine, and raven-haired girls. Italia, on the other hand, is a maze. It’s alluring, but complicated. It’s the kind of place that can have you fuming and then purring in the space of a hundred meters, or in the course of ten minutes. Italy is the only workshop in the world that can turn out both Botticellis and Berlusconis.― Beppe Severgnini, La Bella Figura: A Field Guide to the Italian Mind
The Two Italys
As I dive deeper into the Italian culture, I have discovered that the famous Italian writer, Beppe Severgnini, is right. There are two Italys.
Let me explain. The first Italy is beautiful, idyllic, and charming. It is the Italy experienced by millions of tourists–a magical place with vibrant cities, spectacular cultural and architectural history, beautiful countryside, and food that is fresh and bursting with flavor.
Here’s an illustration of charming Italy. On one warm May evening, I overheard some tourists in the early stages of falling in love with this country, which inevitably starts soon after arrival. This particular group of tourists was walking down Borgo Santa Croce–a cobblestone street closed to traffic. This centuries-old thoroughfare is lined with cafes, restaurants, and enotecas (wine bars) where hundreds of people at all times of the day are chatting, listening to music, walking dogs, eating gelato, and shopping.
“Look at that!” one the tourists exclaimed, pointing at scores of customers from the wine bars who had moved outside with their drinks. They were sitting at small folding tables in the middle of the street, chatting, laughing, and nibbling on spuntini (snacks). It was the Italian version of a block party.
“We can have a drink right here on the street!” another tourist exclaimed, caught up in the laughter and high spirits of the Italians, which were infectious.
Many Italians are charming. Their ability to find joy in simple pleasures seems magical to those of us who were raised to think that joy is expensive and squeezed into a few hours on the weekends or during vacations. Many Italians don’t delay their happiness. They find time during the day to enjoy the company of friends over a cup of coffee, a shared meal, or simply a conversation on the street. Their pleasure is real, genuine, and spontaneous.
But then, one day, the sunshine fades and the “rain” starts to fall. That signals the arrival of the second Italy, which Beppe Severignini calls “Italia.”
Here’s an example of Italia. After waiting on a long, chaotic line at the Borghese Gallery, an attendant tells you that the bag you are carrying must be checked. So, you get out of the line and turn over your bag to an attendant on the other side of the building who doesn’t stop talking to a co-worker while filing your I.D. card, which she won’t be able to find later. When you return to the entrance to the gallery 10 minutes later and walk up the stairs, another attendant stops you and says that you cannot join your spouse who is waiting for you up on floor 2. You must enter the gallery on floor 1.
You have now entered the next phase of your acculturation. It is similar to your first quarrel after falling madly in love. You now realize that your love (Italy) has some bad habits that are hard to break. You think the honeymoon is over because the Italian way of doing things is inefficient, illogical, and mired in archaic bureaucracies. Then, it happens again. A stranger walks you halfway down the street to make sure you know how to get to the obscure artisanal gelato place you read about on the web. And then, on another rainy day, you notice that some Italian men are gallantly holding an umbrella over the heads of their wives or girlfriends, shielding them from the rain while they get wet. Now, come on. What woman wouldn’t find that charming? So, right then and there, you relent. You accept the fact that no country is perfect. And your love affair with Italy continues.
Now, it’s your turn. Have you “fallen in love” with a country? Which one? Why is it easy to love?
As we continue our travels this year, I’ll be writing more about the places, people, and experiences we have along the way. I hope you join me on my journey.
Before ending this post, let me wish you a joyful and inspiring week in your part of the world!
Categories: Memoir, Photography
Well, aren’t ther two of many places…the Tourist ‘shiny’ version, and the everyday, warts and all version??
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Good point, Sue. I think that’s often true. But I wonder if there are places in the world that manage to keep their ideal image without any “ugly” parts…. Thanks for visiting and commenting!
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I rather doubt it….
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We just returned from Rome a few weeks ago. This was our 4th time, so we weren’t newbies, but at times it can feel that way. Yes, Rome can be like you are walking through a poem at times. The charming narrow streets. the gorgeous cafes, the urban street life, and can’t forget the wonderful food. But it was impossible to find a taxi at times, and the bus schedule was tricky to figure out. Yes, Rome has many faces, and I need to return to see more of them. Thank you.
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Patti, I agree that all places are Janus-faced. Your point is apt, and I’m glad thatyou still can enjoy the art, culture and history that brought Italy to its present.
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To thanks for sharing your thoughts, Sally! I am loving our time in Italy. 😉😉 Have you been there?
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It is so easy to fall in love with Italy! These photos are beautiful. Each tells its story. 🙂
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Many thanks, Amy! I’m in a photographic heaven! There are so many beautiful sites here.
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I think to truly love a place, you have to accept a place, or a person, warts and all. 🙂 I used to love Italy, and still do, but I discovered there were so many other places to love as well. I have been unfaithful. 🙂
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Hi, Marie. So true! True love accepts both sides of a person or place. Don’t worry about being “unfaithful.” Italy is very understanding of your wandering attentions, but hopes that someday you’ll return. 🙂
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Patti, loved your insightful account. Can’t stop loving your photos. Btw, Italians can be quite charming!(never met one but from what i read of them, i believe they are!)
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Hi, Aditya. Thank you so much for your thoughts about the post and photos. You made my day! 🙂 🙂
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Always Welcome😀
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The logistics of the Borghese are completely a pain, but yet worth it.
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Absolutely, Amy. The collection and palace are amazing. It sounds like you’ve been there. 🙂
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Yes, just this past fall. I’m not a huge fan of sculpture I’ll say that upfront, but this was the best I have ever seen. I was glad we went to the effort to go and would recomend a visit to anyone.
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I totally agree. The collection was absolutely amazing.
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Love this post Patti and know exactly what you mean! I think it’s true of every country we’ve visited so we always try to see both sides, and to avoid the “ignorant American” syndrome. Joy and I spiration to you too!!
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PS, forgot to say I loved the photography on this one too😊
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Hi, Tina. Thanks so much! I agree. It’s important to keep both sides in mind as you travel. I love getting into conversations with the local people and trying to understand more about their lives and point of view.
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I love the image of the Galleria Borghese’s ceiling. Great composition. All countries have these ‘dualities’, I suppose. Latin America is full of them for sure.
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Thank you , Maria! I always appreciate your thoughts on my photos. Yes, it’s true that all countries have their dualities. 🙂
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Wonderful photos, Patti. The Duomo has never looked so good!
Beppe Severgnini’s books are wonderful. He’s always spot on with his observations.
I’ve often thought that one can experience the real “Italia” simply by visiting the post office. Brace yourself! 🙂
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It is so true, Jackie! You made me laugh!!
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That last ‘post office’ comment made me wince. Love Portugal though I do, Patti, I am reluctant to give any more hours of my life to the post office in Tavira. 🙂 🙂 And I agree with your beautifully presented sentiments.
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What is it about the post office, Jo? When we lived in a small town in rural New Hampshire, we saw the strangest goings-on in the local P.O.! (People asking for applications for international passports when they were traveling to New Mexico….yes, it’s true!!) I’m sure you have stories about the P.O. in Tavira!!
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Lovely! Reblogging to sister site “Timeless Wisdoms”
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Reblogged this on almost Rome and commented:
Sensational
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Thank you so much, realmaven! I appreciate your kind words. 🙂
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Pat — love your post, and you are correct about the two Italys — both wonderfully, maddeningly real. And probably why I love this country so much. By the way — I’d love to re-blog this. I’ve started a “curated” category on my blog, and this would be perfect.
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Thank you so much, Ann! I love Italy too–as you can tell. Have you spent time there too? We were fortunate to spend 2 months there this spring. It was heavenly. Thanks again for the re-blog.
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Yes, I’ve spent a LOT of time in Italy, particularly in and around Florence. I nearly bought an apartment there, with Italian friends. Regardless of the stories I could tell (but won’t) I still love Italy. Great post — and I see a re-read of Severgnini’s book coming up for me! — and I have reblogged you here: https://anncavittfisher.com/2018/08/24/discovering-the-two-italys/
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Wonderful, Ann!
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You beautifully illuminated the duality of Italy:))
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Thanks for sharing and amazing work!! Please check out my blog and I hope you enjoy it!
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Thank you so much, Ashley. 🙂
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Beautifully written article on my favorite city! Thank you.
https://almostrome.wordpress.com/
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Thank you so much, Discover! I’m so glad you shared this with your followers.
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Another comment on your wonderful article. Rome is beautiful, maddening, bewildering, spectacular, and a million other things. It is the past and the present. Historic and contemporary. And my favorite European city.
Thank you.
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I absolutely love that comment from Beppe Severgnini which I’ve never heard before. And yes, all places have a good and a bad side, the important thing is to be aware of both but concentrate on the good side. My two favourite countries are Italy and Thailand and both suffer from this Janus-like sympton, Thailand possibly even more so.
Lovely post, I shall read some more.
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Many thanks, Maris. I love Beppe’s writings. I’m glad we share a love of Italy. I haven’t been to Thailand yet, but it’s on my list of places to visit. Thanks so much for your thoughts and for stopping by.
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